On January 14th, 2012 over 1000 people gathered for the 18th Annual Hair O’ The Dog Black Tie Party at the Hotel Westin Philadelphia and I was lucky to be among the party goers.
What the heck is Hair O’ The Dog? Well, the expression, “Hair of the dog” refers to an old school method of curing a hangover. Basically, the concept is that you have a drink “the morning after” and it slows down the body’s natural “withdraw” process; thus, lessening the effect of a hangover. Baby steps instead of cliff jumping. The founders (Daniel Cronin and Rob Molinaro) of HOD chose the name because of the party’s proximity to New Year’s Eve. Apparently this is how Philly collectively solves its NYE hangover. How’s that for brotherly love!?
Despite the fact that Hair O’ The Dog has a longstanding reputation for being Philly’s swankiest party this was my first time attending. Where have I been for the best 17 years? Clearly in the wrong place, because this party was by far one of the best I have attended in the city of Philadelphia. The atmosphere was classy and sophisticated but fun. It’s rare that you find an event of this caliber that isn’t stuffy. Or a party that fun and wild that isn’t also a little scary. But the lovely staff of Hair O’ The Dog pulled it all off with the perfect mix of excitement.
There was something for everyone. Aside from the standard appetizers and drinks there were specialty cocktails and fancy hors devours, a photo booth with festive props for camera whores like me and Kate and even a bottle service lounge presented Cheerleaders that featured the sexy DJ Licious.
Everyone was dressed to the nines and the Philly fashionistas were out in full effect rocking both designer and custom outfits from Herve Leger, BCBG and even Philly’s own Nicole Miller and Aci Nae just to name a few.
There were multiple rooms with different entertainment which included live music by Drop Dead Sexy combined with The Legendary DJ Johnny Looch, a dance floor rocked by the sounds of DJ BEAT STREET and the DYNAMIC DUO of Adrian Hardy and Manny Roman, and even live pop art by painters Glenn Stevens and Perry Milo. But I honestly had a lot of fun in the hallways too, there was so much going on that no area was boring, not even the bathroom (but I’ll keep those details to myself ).
Just as important as the fantastic atmosphere were all the fabulous people in attendance. Kate and I had the pleasure of snapping some photos with some of our favorite Philly movers and shakers. Here are a few highlights.
Ken Davies, owner of City Fitness in Northern Liberties where me and Kate have been getting our “FIT” on recently. (F.I.T. stands for functional interval training and WE Fit is City Fitness’s one of a kind group training classes. City Fitness just opened up a new location in the Graduate Hospital area.
Susie Celek and Julie Dorenbos of Skin Palette who sprayed tanned Kate and probably hundreds of the attendees before the event. Kate promised Julie that she would wear anything BUT white….Opps! In the end the dress surived and wouldn’t have looked even half as good without that perfect spray tan!
Ed Knight Culinary Deliveries in West Chester (my FAVORITE pizza place and my FAVORITE chef).
Brian Nagele who owns and operates Kings Oak Lane restaurant and just recently bought Arrow Swim Club which will now operate under the name of North Shore Beach Club and will be making all sorts of fun changes. Starting with slashing the original $1000.00 membership to $500, but only for a limited amount of people, so get your application for membership in soon!
Kate with teacher and model Tara Marie and Lauren Harris, Preston and Steve calendar cover girl.
Tom Domalski, owner of Whisper nightclub along with bottle servers Jess and Sam. And, Matt Nadu of the CW crew.
Whisper Club and G Lounge were the hosts of the official after parties which rocked on until 3 and 6 am respectively. I decided to go to Whisper but the party once well under way when I arrived and it was a great time as usual. Kate made it to g and had this to say about her first HOD experience …
“Hair of the Dog was such a nice change of pace from my normal “nightlife” routine. It was great to see a lot of people I don’t see out regularly and the attendance was large enough that I met lots of new friends as well! It was the perfect chance to stretch those social “butterfly” wings from their current winter hibernation. And despite the self-induced stress of waiting till the last minute to find something suitable to wear, I still always love an excuse to dress up.”
Looking for something different to do this Friday? Come out and support a good cause and do a little bowling all while helping out the youth of Philadelphia.
Last year’s bowling benefit was such a hit that they are doing it again! The Covenant House Young Professionals (CHYP) are hosting “Strike Out Youth Homelessness” – all proceeds benefit at-risk and homeless youth of Philadelphia and surrounding communities. Join us Friday, May 20th at North Bowl from 9pm-Midnight. The night’s festivities include 3 hours of bowling, open bar, light appetizers, raffles, and prizes for the top bowlers. So break out those bowling shoes and polish that bowling ball, because it’s time to throw some rocks for charity! For more info or pictures from last year, find CHYP on Facebook.
I may have seemed suspiciously M.I.A. lately, but I’ve actually been very busy. And I’ve got some big news! In case you haven’t heard, let me be the first to tell you that on November 29, 2010, I won the title of Miss Pennsylvania USA 2011 and I will be representing our fabulous state in the Miss USA pageant!
I’m cheesing as I write this because it brings me such joy. =) ….. Ahhhhhh! Talk about a fantasy come true! I eat, breathe and sleep this stuff! But, since most of you probably don’t, let me be your substitute teacher for the day and give you a little Pageant 101.
First of all, this is NOT the Miss America pageant. Miss USA and Miss America are two totally different women, who represent two totally different organizations. So let’s clear up the confusion.
The Miss USA pageant is owned and operated by the Miss Universe Organization, a joint venture of the boss man himself, DONALD J. TRUMP, and NBC Universal. Miss USA is a beauty pageant in which 51 ladies from across the United States compete in interview, swimwear and evening gown. (No, you won’t see me singing, dancing, hula hopping or twirling a baton. There is no talent competition in the Miss USA pageant. That’s Miss America. Sorry folks.) The judge’s select their “Top 15″ based on the results of those competitions and the “Top 15” compete on national TV for the number one spot, Miss USA. Miss USA then goes on to compete in the Miss Universe pageant (That’s another difference. The Miss America system does not have a global competition.)
The “insider” description of the difference between the two pageants is that Miss America is the “Girl Next Door” and Miss USA is the “Girl You Wish Lived Next Door”. But, I didn’t make that joke up, so don’t shoot the messenger.
Miss USA
Miss America
Began: 1952
Began: 1921
Owner: Donald Trump (since 1996)
Owner: Miss America Organization
Network: NBC
Network: ABC
National Competition Month: June
National Competition Month: January
Type: Beauty Pageant
Type: Scholarship Pageant
Location: Las Vegas, NV
Location: Originally, Atlantic City, NJ. Now, Las Vegas, NV
Current title holder: Rima Fakih (Michigan)
Current Title Holder: Teresa Scanlan (Nebraska)
Teen Division: Miss Teen USA
Miss America’s Outstanding Teen
No talent competition
Includes talent competition
Fun Fact: Halle Berry was Miss Ohio USA 1986Famous Title Holders include: Shanna Moakler, Ali Landry, and Kenya Moore.
Fun Fact: In, 1950 Miss America, Yolande Betbeze, refused to pose for publicity pictures while wearing a swimsuit. Pageant sponsor Catalina decided to pull their sponsorship off the pageant, and create their own competition, Miss USA.
Winner competes in Miss Universe: 7 Miss USA’s have won the Miss Universe Crown
No global competition
“Girl You Wish Lived Next Door”
“Girl Next Door”
The Miss USA pageant is going down on June 19th at Planet Hollywood in Las Vegas and will be nationally televised on NBC, but the fun has actually already begun! You can log on to the Miss USA website now to “rate” the contestants. Just follow this LINK and give me 5 stars! The actual “Miss Photogenic” voting will be held right before the Pageant, so stay tuned for an update on that later.
So, what does a pageant girl do between winning her state crown and competing for the national title? A LOT!
First things first, there’s a ton of preparation for the Miss USA pageant; photo shoots, gown fittings, mock interviews, retreats, intense workouts, sponsorship meetings– the list goes on and on. There’s so much to do to make sure I represent PA to the fullest in Vegas this June, but I’m up to the challenge.
Next, I’m logging even more than my typical frequent flier miles. I make frequent trips to Pittsburgh (where the pageant headquarters are located) to see my state director Randy Sanders. I’ve also been to West Virginia multiple times, attended retreats in Virginia and Florida, and appeared at a pageant in Connecticut. I also took a detour to Texas and I have been handling business in New York. Wow! That’s a lot of miles, even for a jetsetter like myself.
Lastly, I’ve been making appearances on behalf of the Miss Pennsylvania Organization. I continue to work with PhillyIn’s favorite philanthropic organization, Students Run Philly Style and am now a member of the Roxborough High School Running Team. I made a visit to the “Arc of Philadelphia” to support the Philadelphia Developmentally Disabled Corporation, spoke at the Organization of Chinese Americans New Year Celebration, appeared in Pittsburgh St. Patrick’s Day Parade and greeted teens at Enon Tabernacle Church Youth Dinner Dance – Just to name a few!
You can find more photos from these events and more on facebook at www.facebook.com/amberjoiw or follow me on Twitter at www.Twitter.com/RealMissPAusa to keep up with me and stay posted on what’s next! Also, as we get closer to the Miss USA Pageant, there will be a “Miss USA Update” page at official state page www.misspennsylvaniausa.com. Check there for details soon!
Oh, and one last thing, I had the opportunity to do an interview with Will Henderson, “the pageant guy”. Check it out thepageantguy.com.
I can’t even begin to express how honored I feel to have this title. I’m living my dream every day!!! I’m so thankful for this gift and all of the support that I have received in this journey thus far. So – Thanks PA! And stay tuned for more updates on my Road to Miss USA!!!
I have a confession to make. I quit ballet. I was young. I was bored. I was impatient. And, I wanted to dance like Paula Abdul or Janet Jackson. But that was then. This is now!
Looking back, I wish I had given myself a “good talking to”. “Listen little girl! Suck it up! If you do this now, life will be so much richer when you’re older!”
Alas, though I continued to study “jazz” and “tap”, and expanded my repertoire by taking “hip hop” and eventually even taking “modern” for a spin; regrettably, I never returned to ballet. It’s shameful, I know.
Somehow, I managed still to finesse my way into a career as a professional dancer. Hard work, fitness, and passion can take you far, I suppose — Oh! — and really big, ginormous smiles. Did I mention them? (Dad always says, when I dance, I light up; like someone has plugged me in and flipped the switch. “No fluorescent bulb, my girl. Incandescence!” – I can’t speak to that. I never see me. In fact, I see very little when I dance. I mostly hear. The music. It’s all about the music.)
So, here I am, a little sad, but very grateful, finally acquiring a taste for the dance-path-not-taken — ballet. Mostly, thanks to a friendship with PA Ballet soloist, Barette Vance, that grew quite by chance out of an interview I conducted for PhillyIn. And, although I prefer modern pieces, filled with intensity and intrigue, that push creative boundaries, I determined to see the ultra-classical Swan Lake. It is the “Year of the Swan”, after all.
Even if you’ve recently experienced the disturbing pleasure of this year’s mega thriller, “The Black Swan” — what you may NOT have noticed, is that many of those fine young ladies and gents pirouetting and “arabesque-ing” around Academy Award winning actress, Natalie Portman, are members of our very own Pennsylvania Ballet! Way to go, home team!
I can almost taste the tension building in the PA Ballet’s practice studio, as rehearsals for Swan Lake begin. A demanding piece to be sure! The distracting adoration an Oscar winning smash can elicit! The heightened, if only superstitious, concern of friends and family for one of their own taking on a role that drove the fictional Nina mad! The inevitable crunch for time, and the risk of a major production with which every lover of ballet is familiar! The angst! It feels ripe for its own movie trailer. Should we pity, the sacrificial lamb (er, swan) thrown into this vortex of anxiety by being selected for greatness.
There’s the uncanny fact, strange but true, that Roy Kaiser, Artistic Director of the PA Ballet, had selected “Swan Lake” for this season BEFORE he discovered that his troupe was needed for “Black Swan”. Eerie huh? Might make the hair on the back of my neck stand up a little, had I been a dancer who had just participated in the making of such a dark film, only to witness my artistic director, shortly thereafter, striding into the room and announcing that we’d be dancing “The Swan” again (and without Natalie). I mean, come on!
After attending a matinée performance at the Academy of Music, I was fortunate to catch THE “sacrificial swan”, Brooke Moore, who has starred as Odette/Odile this season.
KATE: I got dizzy watching you on Sunday! How many turns DO you actually do in that scene? (For those of you who haven’t seen Swan Lake or Black Swan, there’s a very challenging turn sequence, in the third act, that Portman’s character famously struggles with in the movie. Brooke made it look like a piece of cake. Black forest cake!)
BROOKE: I think there are about 30.
KATE: Wow, and I’m still perfecting my double! (Double turn that is — not cake. I’ve already perfected the double when it comes to cake. “Seconds please!”). So, the PA ballet selected two swans to alternate performances. Did the director fear that one of his swans might crack under the pressure?
BROOKE: “I didn’t find out I was doing the part until four weeks ago! The reason we even GOT the opportunity was because two of our principals are pregnant. So they passed the torch to us.” (Brooke — a soloist, and her friend, Lauren Fadeley — a corps dancer, alternate as the Swan Queen). “This is probably the biggest part I will ever play.”
“At first, it was a little daunting, because, not only is it technical, but there’s the emotional and the character aspect of it – it’s not something you want to do in three weeks. You want more time to build. But I had an incredible partner. Once we started going, there was no turning back. It was really exciting and a lot of fun for me too, because I absolutely love the acting side.”
KATE: Girls dream about this role, but I’ll admit, I’m a big fat scaredy cat. The movie gave me chills. (My date will confirm that I had my eyes covered for much of it.) Were you at all nervous or superstitious?
BROOKE: “I saw the movie with fellow dancers at the premiere. And, I did know we were doing Swan Lake. But, I DIDN’T know I would be playing the Swan Queen. (Natalie Portman’s character). The day after I found out, my boyfriend joked, “Should we go see Black Swan for character research?”
KATE: The acting part is a certainly a challenge, and Portman has now received an Oscar for her performance. Do you see any parallels with Portman’s character?
BROOKE: “In the movie, she’s kind of the opposite of me. White swan came really easy to her. But she had to really fight for black swan.”
KATE: O really, so would say you’re more of a Black Swan?
BROOKE: “Well, I’m actually more of a grey swan! But yeah, if I had to pick, I’m more Black Swan. I’m extroverted and outgoing. And, I’m definitely not naïve and innocent. Black Swan is more of my own personal character. A little feisty! I mean, I AM a red head.”
KATE: So, we have a multiple personality disorder going on here. No wonder she loses her cool (and her marbles) in the movie. What do you do to transform from the one character to the other, mid-show?
BROOKE: “Honestly, during performances – the wardrobe change from the white tutu to the black tutu – it sort of switches the character automatically. And the music really drives me.”
KATE: The tutus are stunning. I was downright tickled at how sparkly you were! (And somewhat jealous. – How “Black Swan” of me.) Sorry, I forgot, for a moment, that we were talking drama! Black Swan is a Hollywood Thriller. But, what are some of the realities and pressures in the life of member of a professional ballet company?
BROOKE: “The general tone from the movie was mostly correct. I mean, it is a very competitive world. One of the principals explained it to me — that this role in particular – well — it’s a role of a lifetime.”
“And it truly is. I’m sure there were others who wished to be cast in the role. After all, growing up, most dancers would kill to be Swan Queen. Nevertheless, everyone was so supportive, all of my friends, everyone else in the company. I couldn’t have done it without their support. That’s how demanding it is; and how much work has to be put into it; and how much emotion. If I hadn’t had the support from the other swans on stage, and from all of my friends really encouraging me, it wouldn’t have happened.”
KATE: Just watch out for Mila Kunis when you’re back stage! Any other parallels?
BROOKE: “A little bit of trying to get the directors eye and his attention, that’s basically true. Really, just the portrayal of how hard we work, and how much we put into it. The movie IS ballet, just exaggerated. It took all of the things that ARE actually there and took them way past.”
KATE: I just hope there’s a “no sharp objects in the dressing room” rule?
BROOKE: Laughs, “No, most of us are pretty sane!”
KATE: So, now we’ve come to the best part, the ballet has re-established their Young Friends program that includes special deals for the 21-39 crowd. The “PhillyIn” crowd if you will. And it kicks off this weekend. So why should young people come to the ballet? Give us the sell!
BROOKE: “It’s true. Most of our audience consists of children, on one end, and of an older generation that have attended the ballet forever, on the other. There’s a lack of 20s-40s in the middle. I think that there is something in the ballet for everyone; whether its storied ballets like Swan Lake (some people love them) or whether it’s the more contemporary pieces.
Personally, I want to share what I love so much, and what I’m most passionate about, with people who are going through the same things in life as me. Come see what I do, and what I’ve been working on since I was 8. You don’t know what you’re missing.”
Pennsylvania Ballet Young Friends is a newly-formed group of young professionals ages 21 to 39 who support Pennsylvania Ballet and serve as ambassadors to a younger generation.
Members of Pennsylvania Ballet Young Friends are offered distinctive opportunities to expand their understanding and enjoyment of Pennsylvania Ballet through special events with an exclusive behind-the-scenes perspective, like parties with Pennsylvania Ballet dancers and invitations to studio rehearsals. Membership begins with an annual donation of $100. For a full list of member benefits or to join Pennsylvania Ballet Young Friends, visit paballet.org/young-friends.
So are YOU a White Swan or a Black Swan?
If you’re interested in being a Young Friend, but want to take it for a “spin” before making the commitment, (I know as a “young person” with “my mind on my money and my money on my mind” I like to give things a trial run) than join Pennsylvania Ballet Young Friends at Swan Lake.
Saturday, March 12, 2011. 8 p.m. Performance
Academy of Music, Broad and Locust Streets
Young Friends are ballet supporters ages 21-39.
The special deal on performance tickets for the Young Friends event are sold out! To attend, you can purchase a regular performance ticket from Ticket Philadelphia (215.893.1999) and separately purchase an after-party only ticket through the Ballet at cfreeman@paballet.org or 215.587.6913.
After-party: $40
The Orpheus Club: 254 S. Van Pelt Street (between Locust and Spruce & 21st and 22nd Streets)
Mingle with Young Friends and Pennsylvania Ballet dancers after the performance.
Heavy hors d’oeuvres will be served.
Drinks will be provided by Chambord Flavored Vodka, Black Swan Wines and Flying Fish Brewing Company.
Guests are encouraged to dress in their best black/white attire.
For more information on the Young Friends Membership, visit http://www.paballet.org/young-friends.html
For additional information about the Swan Lake event or Young Friends, contact Christina Freeman, Annual Fund Manager, at cfreeman@paballet.org or 215.587.6913.
*Swan Lake Photos by Candice DeTore Alexander Iziliaev courtesy of the PA Ballet
Sixer Dancer photo by Jesse Garrabrant
Kate’s Nutcracker photo courtesy of my mom. Hi mom!
**Did you see Swan Lake? Have you been to the ballet? Would you become a Young Friend? Add your comments at the bottom!
I’m sitting at Darling’s Diner engaged in some serious girl talk with Barette Vance.
“PI: So no ballet boyfriends in the mix. How about a non-ballet boyfriend? BV: “Nope! I am single and ready to mingle!” She smiles slyly and giggles. PI: So, what precisely are you looking for among the “Men of Philadelphia”? BV: “Let’s see…I’m looking for someone who is ambitious. Also, I need to be with someone who doesn’t take himself too seriously. I think having good family values and morals is really important. I want someone who will love me for just me. Also, someone who makes me want to be a better person. A best friend. Someone I can share my life struggles with and know that we’ll make it through and at the same time, have that extreme passion that you feel when you’re the only two people in the middle of a room and there’s a hundred people around you. I want to feel that deep connection with someone…So, that’s what I’m looking for.” PI: That’s all? Mr. Everything? BV: She laughs. “Yep, that’s what I’m trying to find. I’m definitely out there dating…but haven’t found the right one yet.” PI: (Mr. Everything, if you’re out there, feel free to email the editor at talktokate@phillyin.com. I might pass your info along to Barette…unless you prefer brunettes )”
Flash forward, January 2011
By now, most of you are familiar with our favorite “Hip Hop” Ballerina, Barette Vance. (Or, perhaps you’ve been shipwrecked in the middle of the Pacific for the last year, and just been rescued. If so, welcome back! And you can check out her In-Focus interview here!)
Sadly, Mr. Everything never sent that email. Alas, he didn’t have to. He had met Barette already and was waiting patiently “in the wings”. But this ballerina was too busy practicing to know the show had begun.
Gentlemen Prefer Blondes
I know. By now, you’re wondering if Mr. Everything has a name, and if I’m going to make you wait to the “series finale” to find it out.
Well, he does. And, it’s not “Lucky Guy”, though that would be an accurate description.
His name is Chris Widell, a South Jersey native and Drexel grad, who works as a Players Services Host at a local casino.
PI: So, Chris, what were your first thoughts when you met Barette? (Note that I refrained from asking if she was dancing on a couch at the time, like she was when I first met her.)
CW: I wanted to get to know who she was right away. I am a sucker for blondes. What can I say? I was not aware until much later that she danced in the ballet.
PI: So, Barette, what were your first thoughts when you met Chris?
BV: I couldn’t help but notice how cute he looked in his suit. (He was a host at Parc, a popular French restaurant on Rittenhouse Square, at the time. Hence, the “cute” and “suit”.)
PI: You met Chris in February, but didn’t go on your first date till April? What gives?
BV: I was really enjoying my single life after a hard breakup earlier in the year. I thought Chris was gorgeous, but knew this wasn’t a good time to give someone my all, and I could tell Chris was the kinda guy who deserved that.
PI: A wise man recently told me “the only way to truly tell if a guy really likes you is to make him wait”. Barette mentioned that it was quite awhile between your first meeting and your first date. So, you waited? Why?
CW: Well, the romantic reason was that I was truly intrigued and fascinated with her from the first. She is very driven and motivated with what she believes and cares for in life. I knew if it did work out, she would be 100% committed to me and what we were going to be able to build together. The more practical reason — I was working nights, from 8pm to 6am, and sleeping on my day off.
Diamonds Are A Girl’s Best Friend
PI: Once you started dating, you’re engagement happened very quickly. How did you know this was the girl you wanted to be with for the rest of your life?
CW: When you know, you know.
PI: Word on the street is that you were engaged long before you formally proposed?
CW: We had that “I want to marry you” conversation and I was not at all nervous to talk about that with her. I was more nervous about the actual public proposal that came much later. Even though, she promised to say “yes”.
PI: What’s the deal, Barette? He MUST be special if he got a “yes” out of you with no ring.
BV: Chris and I didn’t exactly follow the traditional engagement path, in that we agreed to get married before he got down on one knee to place a ring on my finger. In June, after returning from a friend’s wedding together in Bermuda, Chris told me that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. We subsequently began planning for our future together, opening a joint savings account, setting a date for the wedding, and choosing a venue.
PI: What did your friends and families think of this whirlwind romance and engagement? Did they disapprove?
BV: Others might have thought we were moving too fast. (We had only been dating for two months.) But, it felt so right that is was easy to take this next step. Our families, and good friends, instantly saw how compatible we are, and were very supportive of our decision.
PI: Ok, so you knew you wanted to get married, but what about the real deal proposal?
BV: Chris officially proposed on December 4th, 2010. He did it on the stage at the Academy of Music after the opening night performance of George Balanchine’s The Nutcracker. That night was already extremely important to me, as I was performing one of my favorite roles–Dew Drop — Chris’s proposal made it that much more special. He had arranged it so that my family, including my dad (who lives in California and is not on the east coast very often) could be in Philadelphia for the big event.
PI: Chris, were you nervous when you formally proposed, even though she promised to say yes? Ya know, we girls have been known to change our minds on occasion, if for no better reason than to keep you boys on your toes.
CW: Well, I asked her father if I could marry her, which I admit made me a little nervous. But, you gotta do it. As for the proposal, I was more excited than nervous. I basically got on my knee and said, “Here’s your ring”. Then she cried, took it, and ran away to show her friends, leaving me on the stage before I could say anything more! She did come back (we’re glad to note) and I just laughed and said “Barette, will you marry me?”
PI: Barette, was that moment still a rush, even though it wasn’t quite a surprise?
BV: I am the kind of person who always figures things out. And I hate surprises! So this was perfect for me. I was beyond excited, when it all happened. I was happy! I know that I have never cried like that in my whole life. It was the best day of my life so far!
PI: Tell us about the ring?
BV: It’s perfect! The center diamond is a radiant cut that is surrounded on either side by a trillion and set in a thin platinum band. The ring was designed, picked, and set by renowned jewelry designer and close friend, Jamie Wolf.
Going to the Chapel
PI: What’s your “bride style”? Are you worried you’ll become a “Bridezilla”?
BV: Chris calls me “Bridezilla” (Just to get under my skin!), but I think of myself as more of a “blushing bride”. (PhillyIn has yet to confirm this with Chris.) I am so beyond happy to marry Chris, that there is no “Bridezilla” about me. Planning this wedding is proving to be easy, since we have very similar taste, and, since Chris agrees with everything I want.
(Side note: Another feature of Mr. Everything — that PhillyIn had yet to identify — He agrees with everything his True Love does, thinks, wants.)
PI: Tell us about dress shopping. Who’d you bring? How many dresses did you try? How did you know you’d found “the one”?
BV: My eye kept catching this one dress by Monique Lhuillier. So, I called to find out which store close to Philly had it for me to try on. The closest was Kleinfeld (“Yes!” that Kleinfeld, from TLC’s “Say Yes to the Dress”). My mom, my fellow dancer Lily DiPiazza, and good childhood friends Laura Breckenridge and Gabby Yudenich went with me for support, and advice. They say not to buy the first dress you try on, but I’ve always had a very good sense of my own style. I knew the moment I put on the Monique that this was THE one. I did, however, try on 5 more dresses just to make 100% sure. And, to make it official, Dianne (the stylist) took us out to where the show is filmed to shout out “YES” to the dress!!
PI: I know you’re a huge fan of the BCBG line by Max Azria. Did you know you wanted the bridesmaid dresses from BCBG?
BV: I did know that I wanted them from BCBG. I like their fit, and they represent how I feel about fashion. I had been looking for some months, and at one point considered looking elsewhere. Then one day, they suddenly appeared. Just like when I saw my dress, I knew that these would be perfect. I didn’t need to see more. All the girls, Chris, and our parents fell in love with them.
PI: So give us the details, Barette. Where and when?
BV: We are getting married on November 5, 2011, at Cabo Azul–a romantic resort that opens onto the beach. The color scheme for the wedding is pink and silver, and the menu is traditional Mexican.
PI: Chris, since you’re planning a destination wedding, what made you guys choose Cabo?
CW: To be honest, that’s what she wanted. She loves the area, and I wanted to get our marriage off on the right foot, so I just agreed!
Sounds like a successful beginning to me! (Inquiring minds might want to know, do you have any single brothers?)
Congratulations to Chris and Barette from all of their friends at PhillyIn!!
What happens when you throw a “gala of great minds” matched with A-List entertainment, gourmet hors d’oeuvres, fancy cocktails and influential guests ? Magic happens! And that is exactly what occurred on November 17th, 2010 when Philadelphia’s own Craig Williams debuted his historical novel The Olympian. This book opening was like no other I have ever attended. It was much more a celebration of talent and accomplishments of Philadelphia’s most elite artists and icons, than a simple book opening.
But first things first! The novel, The Olympian is a biography based on the life of Dr. John Baxter Taylor Jr., the first ever African American to win a gold medal at the 1908 Olympics. Dr. John Baxter Taylor was a track and field athlete and graduate of Philadelphia’s Central High School and the prestigious University of Pennsylvania (my alma mater, woot woot!!) The novel chronicles Taylor’s extraordinary Olympic experience which is “filled with love, passion and the achievement of a dream against all odds.” For more information visit www.theolympian.net
Kate and I had the honor of being invited to this exclusive event! I’m not sure about her but I was expecting a run-of-the-mill, old school book signing. This was everything but that! The event was held in at “Trust” (formerly known as the “Real World house”) in the Old City section of Philadelphia. The night featured artwork by Jules Arthur, an award-winning painter whose stellar clientele include Jay-Z, Kate Hudson, Iain Softly and Pras Michel.
A live performance by Rockjazz artist and piano iconoclast ELEW.
Music by Philadelphia’s favorite DJ and multitalented music artist and producer ?uest Love.
And, last but not least, the host and author of the book Craig Williams.
As you can imagine, this event was fabulous. It was 5 star celebration that incorporated many mediums of creativity and expression. There was music, there was writing, there was artwork and did I mention delicious food and signature cocktails provided by Grey Goose Vodka? (See gallery photos). Most importantly there was historical significance. Dr. John Baxter Taylor Jr. is a symbol of talent, dedication and success. This affair and its cream of the crop guest artists and attendees are an extension of his legacy and I was honored to be a part of it!
To learn more about Craig Williams, the man behind it all, check out his bio here…
Craig Williams is what some people might call a Renaissance Man. That is, if they are the type prone to understatement. A writer, historian, entrepreneur and philanthropist, Williams embodies his city’s ambition and civic drive like few others can. As founder of the local construction firm Pride Enterprises, Williams regularly fulfills multi-million dollar contracts for clients ranging from Temple University to the United States Army. He changed the life of injured Iraq War veteran Richard Bennett when he partnered with him in another area construction firm, Fidelis Design and Construction, now a multi-million dollar firm with several government contracts to work on Veterans Affairs medical centers. This very year, Williams founded Philadelphia-area multimedia arts and entertainment company Vintage World in an effort to chronicle the lives and achievements of real-life heroes from diverse backgrounds—like John Taylor Jr.—who he believes have been overlooked in the pages of world history. A new type of figure in entertainment, Craig Williams is more than just an entrepreneur, author, publisher and historian. He is a visionary, concerned with nothing less than the formation of a new mythic history.
We’ve told you before that Cool Kids parties are the place you want to be! And, that’s just where I was when I met “White Mike” MCing. He rocked it! I would soon find out that not only is White Mike a popular and talented MC, but he is also an entertaining tweeter (@WhiteMikeOZ), and most importantly, a skilled rapper. On November 24th White Mike O.Z. released his fifth mixtape “I Hate Rappers”. The mixtape can be downloaded at www.whitemikemusic.com … FOR FREE!
Got questions!? I did too. So White Mike O.Z. and I had a little impromptu interview. This is what Philly should know about one of its up and coming rappers / entertainers extraordinaire…
Q: What’s the inspiration behind the title of your mixtape “I HATE RAPPERS”?
A: “There is a lot of ‘fronting and following’ with rappers lately. Everybody is trying to be a gangsta’ nowadays. Basically, the title is just how I feel and I think a lot of people agree with the statement.”
In other words White Mike O.Z. “keeps it real” with you. He’s going to hit you with the truth. His truth! Mike doesn’t need to put up a facade to sell records. He is doing this for the love of the music. He stays true to who he is and you can hear it in his music.
Q: What does the OZ in White Mike O.Z. stand for?
A: “My last name is Osborne, so people have been calling me Oz, Ozzie and O.Z. for years.”
Enough Said!!!
Q: How long have you been rapping? What made you start rapping?
A: “I have loved rap music since I was a little kid. I started rapping about 11 yrs ago.”
White Mike first fell in love with Hip Hop at the age of 9 yrs old. It was introduced to him by an older friend. His love for the music and the culture grew over the years. By the time he hit high school, he was writing rhymes and freestyling in the school cafeteria and at local parties. He has grown to become a popular and respected rapper in the Philly music scene.
Q: What is your favorite song on the mixtape and why?
A: “I would have to say, ‘One Step Away”’… It’s just a real song. I know people will relate to. It’s also how I feel right now. Shout out to Drumcrazie for a crazy beat! Dope producer!”
My personal favorite is “Put it On Repeat” with Marsha Ambrosius. But as a lady I may be biased, because it’s a love song. =) There is something for everyone on “I Hate Rappers”. White Mike is a versatile rapper and this mixtape really shows the many sides of Mike.
Q: What is your relationship with DJ Aktive and DJ A-Run? Why did you choose to collaborate with them?
A: “Aktive & A-Run are like my brothers! We rock parties together and they were the first DJs in the city to really show me love when it came to my music. So, it was only right we do the mixtape together. That’s my family!”
White Mike often works with DJ Aktive and DJ A-Run to DJ and host Philly’s hottest parties. DJ A-Run has worked with Skillz, Macy’s, Royal Caribbean and Rocawear to name a few. And DJ Aktive has toured with major artists like, Kanye West, Kelis, Marshia Ambrosius, and Tyga. Because of the great reputation they are even asked to travel to surrounding cities. They have teamed up to become one of Philly’s hottest crews.
Q: Who is your favorite rapper of all time?
A: “Myself! Lol! Sike! Nah…I’d probably have to say Biggie…his versatility was crazy!”
There he goes!!! Keepin’ it real!
Q: Where can people pick up / download your mixtape and how much does it cost?
A: “The mixtape is on my website www.whitemikemusic.com. It’s available as a free download.”
Go there today folks!! Support Philly rappers! White Mike O.Z. has worked with Philly’s top rappers and DJs. His music has even received radio play. Google him!!!
Q: You’ve coined the phrase “Hustle Smarter” What do you mean by that?How does one Hustle Smarter? Enlighten us!
A: “ … Basically whatever you do, be smart about it. Do your research, have a game plan. You can work hard as hell but if you’re not smart about it you’re wasting time and probably won’t get very far. Hustle Smarter not harder, that’s the way I play!”
And we appreciate the hustle Mike!
Follow White Mike at www.twitter.com/whitemikeoz He’s tweets are awesome and you can also get updates on his music. You can also witness White Mike O.Z. MCing, with his partner in crime DJ Aktive, every Wednesday night at Vango Lounge.
Download “I Hate Rappers” at www.whitemikemusic.com. I promise you will be entertained.
Just a note: White Mike’s tweets and music are not for the sensitive and parental discretion is advised.
“You HAVE to do something, you HAVE to take a chance, you DO have to get involved. There are people that are having trouble making their miracle happen! There are people that don’t have enough to eat! There are people that are cold! You can go out and say ‘hello’ to these people! You can take an old blanket out of the closet and say ‘here’ or you can make ’em sandwich and say ‘Oh by the way, HERE!’ Then it can happen, then the miracle can happen to you! It’s not just the poor and hungry, it’s everybody’s who’s gotta have this miracle! ” – Bill Murray in Scrooged.
263 Tons of food collected! OVER $64,119 raised! (More final totals and prize winner details on the Official Camp Out page here!)
WMMR’s Preston and Steve Show and Philabundance, know how to make Philadelphia’s Miracle happen for Philadelphians in need.
In tough times, help is needed more than ever! So, the PhillyIn cast set their alarms and headed out bright and early. (Ok, Justin was brighter and earlier than Amber-Joi and myself. But we got there!) We made our pilgrimage to the Metroplex Shopping Center in Plymouth Meeting on Friday to drop off our donations. (“Lug” our donations would be more accurate. Those cans are heavy! I’m thinking about quitting the gym and transporting food for Philabundance as an alternative to working out.)
Each year, Preston and Steve take their show out of the studio and hunker down in an RV to “Camp Out For Hunger”. Their week-long drive includes special guest appearances from athletes (Phillies Pitcher Ryan Madson talking to Preston and Steve in photo below) and celebrities, along with live music, free coffee and goodies, and a chance for listeners to watch their favorite morning show and witness the magic as it happens! People are encouraged to drop off food and monetary donations to benefit Philabundance, an organization dedicated to feeding the hungry of the Delaware Valley.
It’s only been a few years since my last visit to the “Camp Out”, but WOW! has it been upgraded! I remember huddling for heat in my little 76ers velour warm-up. So, this time, I came prepared with many layers. But, the tent was “ginormous”! It had lots of seating, and even HEAT! The “set” included a small stage for performers, stage lighting, and flat-screen TVs. The “Camp Out” keeps growing and it’s awesome to see how it’s turned into a major opportunity for people and businesses to come together in support of their community; while providing all a goodly measure of Holiday fun.
It was inspiring to see how much the MMR team truly cares about giving back to our city. Preston and Steve were both losing their voices (and probably their minds) while we guzzled down free coffee from McDonald’s and enjoyed the sounds of rock band, Finger 11.
We bumped into Jenn Frederick and John Bolaris of Fox 29.
Their ability to generate such enthusiasm over such a good cause, is just one reason that the cast of PhillyIn is proud to call the cast and crew of the Preston and Steve Morning Show friends.
Personally, “P and S” and I go way back. I actually paid my very first visit to the studio when I was just a Rookie on the Sixers Dance Team back in 2005. Here’s a throwback.
What sticks indelibly in my mind these many years later, was how welcoming the “P and S” family was to a newly minted Rookie. Since then, they’ve had Amber-Joi and myself on-air and on-cam numerous times. And, talk about welcoming; even Justin recently had a chance to visit the studio. (He wrote about his experience here.) I wonder if they’ve scheduled his “Hottie Cam” appearance yet?
Just a note: simply because the “Camp-Out” is over, doesn’t mean you can’t still help. Click on Philabundance to make a donation and discover more ways to help. To find out more info about the “Camp Out” go to the Official Preston and Steve Camp Out For Hunger Page.
Giving back is a great way for the whole city to #GetIn.
“And it can happen tonight for all of you! If you believe in this spirit thing, the miracle will happen and then you’ll want it to happen again tommorow! You won’t be one of these bastards that says ‘Christmas is once a year and its a fraud’. It’s not! It can happen everyday, you just gotta WANT that feeling! And if you like and you want it, YOU’LL GET GREEDY FOR IT! You’ll want it everyday of your life!! And it can happen to you!!!” – Bill Murray in Scrooged
This past week, myself and PhillyIn friend, Seth Birch, paid a visit to the WMMR studios for the Preston and Steve Calendar release broadcast. Having always been a huge Preston and Steve fan, I was very excited to check out the behind the scenes and meet the whole group.We had picked a great day to attend the broadcast, with some of Philly’s own local celebrities showing up as well, including weatherman John Bolaris, model and 2010-2011 Preston and Steve cover calendar model Lauren Harris, Pete of Chickie and Pete’s and comedian Jeff Ross.
If you have yet to catch a live airing of the Preston and Steve show, it is worth taking the morning off of work to check out. Listeners are welcome to sit in on the broadcast, and there is always food being brought in by local restaurants.
In case you didn’t know, this week is the Preston and Steve Campout for Hunger, which PhillyIn will all be attending to support the cause and help the less fortunate. I’ve heard it’s always a great time and an event filled with laughs.
Camp Out Event Information:
When: Monday, November 29th thru Friday, December 3rd (It’s over at the end of the broadcast on Friday – about 10am) Donations are accepted Monday through Thursday from 6am to about 8pm, and Friday from 6am to 10am. <
Where: The Metroplex Shopping Center in Plymouth Meeting, PA
All donations benefit Philabundance – feeding the hungry of the Delaware Valley
For more information check out PrestonandSteve.com and we hope to see everyone there.
Special thanks to Marisa Magnatta and the producers and crew of the Preston and Steve show for having us out. It was a great time, and we will hopefully be stopping back in the near future, and maybe can get on air sometime. Thanks, you guys ROCK!
How about those Eagles?! So far, they are looking good. With a 5-3 record there is not a ton of room for complaint. Sure, some improvements can be made, but they are, without a doubt, a solid squad. In light of an awesome win over the Indianapolis Colts and the upcoming Monday Night Game against the dreaded Washington Redskins, I decided to do a little mid-season analysis.
One thing is very clear. While there is no doubt that some issues remain to be resolved, I think that all Eagles fans can all agree on one thing – the quarterback situation. Andy Reid made at least one good decision in the off-season, and that was the controversial choice to let go of McNabb and allow Vick and Kolb to become the new team leaders. While McNabb is having issues over in Washington, we have not one, but two good quarterbacks. So McNabb was right when he said that “we all make mistakes”, but this was not one of them.
In a nutshell, the Eagles are performing a lot better than many of us expected. Michael Vick has the potential to take the team a long way. He is one of the biggest and best stories of the year, and is considered by some to be a MVP candidate. Did you know that Michael Vick has not thrown one interception while playing for the Eagles!? That’s a fact that I read on my ESPN iphone app And Kolb! Despite a rocky start, he has proven to be a fine quarterback and great backup for Vick (And I repeat … backup). I’m really excited to see exactly where Vick is going to take this team. I hope he takes them all the way to Dallas, but unfortunately my hope is not enough. We also need a little more consistency from the offensive line and a steady defense. I won’t get too specific, that’s Andy’s job!
So what’s my prediction for this Monday’s game? I predict that PhillyIn’s own Kate will be making an appearance! Yes, she will be in Washington DC representing the lovely ladies of the Green Legion. She’ll tell you more about that later… But in regards to the game, I’m confident the Eagles are going to win this one. I have gotten into the habit of listing my NFL predictions on my twitter page www.twitter.com/missamberjoi each week. Here are the rest of my NFL predictions for this weekend.
Miss Amber-Joi’s NFL Picks!
Buffalo Bills > Detroit Lions
I predict that the Buffalo Bills will get their first win this season over the Detroit Lions.
Minnesota Vikings > Chicago Bears
I have faith that the Minnesota Vikings will upset the Chicago Bears. (Now that they are Randy Moss aka drama free)
New York Jets > Cleveland Browns
The New York Jets are on a roll and will beat the Cleveland Browns.
Indianapolis Colts > Cinncinati Bengals
The Indianapolis Colts have something to prove after getting spanked by the Eagles. They will probably beat the Cincinati Bengals.
Miami Dolphins > Tennessee Titans
No reason, just a feeling. I like both teams. …Shoutout to the newest member of Dolphins, Al Harris, who is one of my all time favorites!
Carolina Panthers > Tampa Bay Buccaneers
Because I really like the Panthers despite the season they are having.
Houston Texans > Jacksonville Jaguars
No reason, just a feeling.
Denver Broncos > Kansas City Chiefs
Because I’ve been to Denver but never been to Kansas … now, how’s that for strategy!!
New York Giants > Dallas Cowboys
For obvious reasons! No one can explain what’s going on in Dallas!!!
Seattle Seahawks > Arizona Cardinals
No reason, just a feeling.
Pittsburgh Steelers > New England Patriots
Because I like Pittsburgh (the city) better. This should be a really good game.
Now let me tell you now, I have had about a 50% rate of accuracy with these predictions over the past 9 weeks and I do this for fun and not for you to bet. You can take my predictions or leave them; just don’t say I didn’t warn you!
p.s. I would like to thank my father for helping me with my Eagles analysis. THANKS POPS!
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Looking back, I wish I had given myself a “good talking to”. “Listen little girl! Suck it up! If you do this now, life will be so much richer when you’re older!”
